The two paths of training I use exercising for male multiple orgasm are:
- Kegel/reverse kegel training and
- Edging
This article focuses on edging — specifically how to use edging to develop male multiple orgasm.
Start with Stop and Start Edging
The normal starting point for edging is the stop start. In this form of edging, you:
- Start as normal,
- Reach a given level of arousal then
- Stop and allow your arousal level to go down.
- You then resume and go back to the given arousal level, stop again and so on.
Over time, through this exercise, you develop a better understanding of arousal and are able to more closely approach the point of no return. This can, in and of itself, increase sexual stamina. However, if you want to progress to multiple male orgasm, the next step is kegel edging.
Progress to Kegel Edging
Having learned the basics of edging through stop and start, and having developed kegel ability through stand alone kegel routines, you are ready for kegel edging. To begin, learn the effect of kegels and reverse kegels at various levels of arousal. Again, over time, your goal is to work toward being able to control of your arousal level during the time around the point of no return.
Kegeling to Avoid Ejaculation
Having developed basic kegel edging ability and control of your arousal during the time around the point of no return, you can then begin to use kegels to to avoid ejaculation. To do so, use a strong kegel in the lead up to your point of no return.
NOTE: If, on occasion, ejaculation does happen, don’t become too upset with yourself. This is all part of the learning process.
As you reach the point of no return and do a strong kegel, a number of things can happen that should not be part of your experience when you perform the kegel correctly. These include:
- Retro-ejaculation and
- Partial ejaculation
Retro-ejaculation is not a dry orgasm. Instead, it’s an orgasm where your ejaculation goes backward into the bladder. Loss of erection is common when this occurs. Although this is often harmless, with side effects typically including loss of erection and discomfort, it is indicative of a skill and timing issue.
Partial ejaculation is as the name implies, where you only partially ejaculate. In many cases, you will not fully lose your erection. Oftentimes, another ejaculation is possible. This should be looked at as a partially successful dry orgasm and a positive sign that you’re on the right path to true dry orgasms. As your ability to drive into the point of no return zone without ejaculation improves, you will eventually be able to orgasm without ejaculating. This is the fabled dry orgasm.
Early Stage of Dry Orgasms Side Effects
In the initial period after attaining dry orgasms, you may find three side effects:
- Weakened orgasms,
- Loss of erection, and
- Loss of interest
When you first achieve dry orgasm, your dry orgasms may not be as strong as normal orgasms. However, with continued training, eventually they should begin to feel the same as a regular, ejaculation-filled orgasm. Also, your body may, at first, shut down your erection, as though an ejaculation took place, as your body gets used to the sensation of dry orgasm. Again, continued training overcomes this.
Lastly, since many men have numerous years of single orgasms in their past, they have been conditioned to single orgasms. This may lead to a loss of interest after the first orgasm. The solution to this is both continued training and a deliberate effort to push on.
The Ultimate Dry Orgasm Experience Leading to Male Multiple Orgasm
Having attained dry orgasm and continuing training, you should now be able to have further orgasms with the same erection. This is the ultimate dry orgasm experience — male multiple orgasm. You have not ejaculated, so you should still have the desire and ability to orgasm. Continue in the same manner as previous, until you have another orgasm . You are now having multiple male orgasms, with the same erection. You have reached male multiple orgasm!
This, of course, leads to other questions. For instance, this is usually done solo first and then transferred to partnered sex. Many guys want to join multiple orgasms together in a wave effect. There are also the mental effects of multiple male orgasm to consider. These are topics that need to be explored.